I don't mean any harm - all I want is for you to try and understand me, that's all.
A list of red flags you should never ignore when you meet someone or at the beginning of a new relationship.
If you're reading this, it's pretty likely that you're wondering what this even means because you've never even fucking heard of it. I'd never heard of it until I had to deal with it, either. Believe it or not, there are two ways of 'parenting' when you're separated - the first being 'co-parenting' and the … Continue reading ‘Counter-Parenting’ – What It Is And How To Deal With It
Your behaviour will damage them psychologically; I know because I’ve been there.
I'd always felt inferior to other mums about being a single parent when they were married or had a partner... until now. See, I'm part of a lot of groups on Facebook, most of which include parents who ask for a lot of advice about their children, living situation, partner etc and honestly, some people … Continue reading Having Children With Different Fathers Doesn’t Make Me A Bad Parent
Being forewarned is being forearmed.
My eyes are dead, my heart feels empty and my mind is tired. I was once care-free; I didn’t care what people thought of me, I had confidence, I felt sexy and now, that’s gone. I gave my everything to someone who didn’t deserve it; I had all of my love saved up and I … Continue reading I’m Still Grieving The Loss Of Myself
Because we’re more than capable of loving ourselves.
Here we go again. It’s 09:26 and I’m sat here once again with a coffee in hand, admiring my daughter playing with her toys, fighting back the tears, wondering what my child did so badly to deserve to be put second by her shit father. He was supposed to be here at 08:00. After two … Continue reading I’m Not Even Sorry That You ‘Miss’ Your Daughter
For many years, I knew something wasn't right; I wasn't 'normal'. I know we all have our quirky little personality traits, but this wasn't (and still isn't) okay, I hated myself and I hated my life. I even hated people. It started at infant school I guess. I couldn't keep a best friend, I didn't … Continue reading You’ll Never Know Who I Am And Neither Will I