The stigma ends now.

I create the one thing I'm petrified of the most and I'll be honest, it's devastating.

I don't mean any harm - all I want is for you to try and understand me, that's all.

If you're reading this, it's pretty likely that you're wondering what this even means because you've never even fucking heard of it. I'd never heard of it until I had to deal with it, either. Believe it or not, there are two ways of 'parenting' when you're separated - the first being 'co-parenting' and the … Continue reading ‘Counter-Parenting’ – What It Is And How To Deal With It

Here we go again. It’s 09:26 and I’m sat here once again with a coffee in hand, admiring my daughter playing with her toys, fighting back the tears, wondering what my child did so badly to deserve to be put second by her shit father. He was supposed to be here at 08:00. After two … Continue reading I’m Not Even Sorry That You ‘Miss’ Your Daughter

For many years, I knew something wasn't right; I wasn't 'normal'. I know we all have our quirky little personality traits, but this wasn't (and still isn't) okay, I hated myself and I hated my life. I even hated people. It started at infant school I guess. I couldn't keep a best friend, I didn't … Continue reading You’ll Never Know Who I Am And Neither Will I