I'd always felt inferior to other mums about being a single parent when they were married or had a partner... until now. See, I'm part of a lot of groups on Facebook, most of which include parents who ask for a lot of advice about their children, living situation, partner etc and honestly, some people … Continue reading Having Children With Different Fathers Doesn’t Make Me A Bad Parent
Being forewarned is being forearmed.
My eyes are dead, my heart feels empty and my mind is tired. I was once care-free; I didn’t care what people thought of me, I had confidence, I felt sexy and now, that’s gone. I gave my everything to someone who didn’t deserve it; I had all of my love saved up and I … Continue reading I’m Still Grieving The Loss Of Myself
Because we’re more than capable of loving ourselves.
Here we go again. It’s 09:26 and I’m sat here once again with a coffee in hand, admiring my daughter playing with her toys, fighting back the tears, wondering what my child did so badly to deserve to be put second by her shit father. He was supposed to be here at 08:00. After two … Continue reading I’m Not Even Sorry That You ‘Miss’ Your Daughter
For many years, I knew something wasn't right; I wasn't 'normal'. I know we all have our quirky little personality traits, but this wasn't (and still isn't) okay, I hated myself and I hated my life. I even hated people. It started at infant school I guess. I couldn't keep a best friend, I didn't … Continue reading You’ll Never Know Who I Am And Neither Will I
What is true love? Is it 'liking' every social media post your significant other uploads? Taking gym selfies? Posting romantic quotes or getting wasted together and making absurd Snapchat stories? Or, is it staying private and genuinely enjoying eachothers' company, making plans and life decisions together without people having an unwanted say or opinion? If … Continue reading I Solemnly Swear To Keep My Next Relationship Private
I'm not here to slag off all social media, because, well, it does serve a good purpose, sometimes. But when you become addicted to social media, like I did, it becomes a little bit of a problem and it affects your mental and, in my case, physical health too. Not only has it affected my … Continue reading How Social Media Made Me Anti-Social
Over half of the population will be in a toxic relationship at least once in their life. That's kind of a shitty statistic, isn't it? So the chances of your "King" or "Queen" being a narcissistic bellend are, actually, uncomfortably high. Myself, along with many others, have been unlucky enough to experience an extremely toxic, … Continue reading 12 Ways To Detoxify Yourself After Being In A Toxic Relationship
I’m about to hit a “perfect parent”‘s nerve here, but to be quite frank, I’m way past the point of caring. I do not give a fuck. No fucks given whatsoever. If you’re a mum, you’re probably on a mum’s advice page on Facebook, right? I am, too. I asked a fair question and I … Continue reading I Gave Up Being A Mother To Indulge Myself